I happened to read an article from a magazine, it says 交友需要積極,因為剩女的藉口都是等待緣份。
與其放手,不如勇敢下手,任何遇到可能對的人,都要勇敢下手,而自信是一個女人最大的籌碼。
For so many years, 每天忙碌著,期待現況有所改變...卻年復一年... as if time has stopped.
一直到現在,當我的生活慢了下來,花了一些時間思考我的未來時,才慢慢瞭解自己。
慢慢的勇敢幻想我以後所要的生活。
書說,you have to work for what you wanted. Nothing is going to fall from the sky for you. 之前,我一直認為< no... things will fall from the sky for me. Cuz I m a nice and kind person. However, as I realized the cold hearted truth, I begin to wonder and felt insecure about my future.
Many people once asked me, where do I imagine myself 10 years later.
However, those people who asked me those questions are westernized.
People in Taiwan haven t ask me these kind of questions, which made me wonder, which ways of life do I want for myself: westernized or Taiwanese.
Perhaps, thesis and the trip to U.S for two months was the best gift I could ve have.
It forced me to think about my future and made me discover myself.
Yet, people should 惜福, and hope the best for ourselves.