Went on a trip with a Chinese couple who are IT professions. It's very obvious the wife runs the family. I'm not used to their cursing each other. In spite of their constantly fightings, they have never thought of getting a divorce. Marriage is not easy. Just have to find out whatever floats ur "marriage" boat. One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is love. For me, love sent me to the hell and gave me the pain of life.