Amy is the friend who I'm staying with. Her husband and her are both IT profession, so they can afford a big house in Auroa. She is obviously the one who runs the family. She is taller and bigger than her pettie hubby. As often as they fight, you wonder how their marriage works. She said in China, men and women are equal so women are expected to work and "take care of the family, too." She took me to a party filled up Chinese IT profession. In that group, the wives look much older than their husbands. Among that Chinese group, most of them bring their parents from China to live with them.