I posted a Spanish-Chinese languange exchange ad in a bar while I was a senior in college. A 28 year-old Paraguayan woman named Romi called me and said she wanted to do it with me. Later, she introduced her friend, 32 year-old Milian, to me. With whom, I became good friends. Both women got married to much older Taiwanese guys around 16 years old. They met their guys in Paraguay and moved to Taiwan illegally. Both of them were looking for love that their hubbies cloud not give to them becasue their men were too old and not home often. Both women liked to go out with me. So they would cook a big meal to feed me on Friday night. After feeding me, they would suggest I go on a diet so I could attract more men. I enjoyed hanging out with their becasue they gave a sense of a home.