When you lose everything which is so important, you will never scare about everything because there are nothing you would lose again.
I appreciated the thing you have gave me and let me grown. To be an army and you waited me for nine month, I can feel the emotion is true but it's to easy too be destroyed. But fine, I am okay. I still be happy everyday. The sentence is that when god closed a door he prepare a window for you but you have to find it out.It's just an attitude you have to change your mind,your thought.
If there are nothing happened but someone does not believe, just show the true answer for him/her.Keep going on and you will get the thing you want,love,work,money,something else.