不要用記憶修理自己， 

     如何運用到日常生活中？

    「好的不喜歡，壞的不討厭，平等心」。                                                                      
                                       
                                                                                   
 　舉例說：                                                                          
                                                                                     
     當你跟別人吵架時，吵的只是當時短短的幾分鐘，                                     
                                                                                    
 　但是事後你會為這件事一再的折磨自己，                                              
                                                                                     
 　每想起一次就生氣一次，認為都是別人的錯，                                          
                                                                                     
     都是別人惹你生氣，但是事實上，讓自己生氣的是自己，                               
                                                                                     
 　所以我們要善用智慧，不要老是用記憶來修理自己。                                    
                                                                                     
 　這讓我想到最近因為受到別人的指責，                                                
                                                                                     
     而心情難過了好幾天，                                                              
                                                                                     
 　後來突然想起「不要用記憶修理自己」這句話，                                        
                                                                                     
 　才豁然開朗，                                                                      
                                                                                     
 　其實每個人的角色不同、看法也不同，                                                
                                                                                     
 　我們只要用包容的心來看待事情，                                                    
                                                                                     
     也許就不會那麼難過了，                                                            
                                                                                     
 　與其樹立敵人，不如成為朋友，                                                      
                                                                                     
   「慈悲沒有敵人，智慧不起煩惱。」                                                  
                                                                                     
 　由於自己的慈悲心不夠、智慧不足，                                                  
                                                                                     
 　所以才會為了別人的指責而耿耿於懷，真是慚愧，                                      
                                                                                     
 　願今後自己煩惱升起時，能釐清事實 不受人影響，                                     
                                                                                    
     不要再用記憶修理自己了 ！你也是喔～～