I have a theory in regards to hiking philosophy vs. relationship philosophy.
When it comes to setting hiking goals, some hikers zero in on reaching the summit/destination while some put more emphasis on the journey.
When it comes to relationship seeking, some zero in on marriage/LTR while some just savor the here and now, end result doesn't matter as much.
In hiking, experienced hikers all know about the danger in summit fever. The tunnel vision nature of it can kill or strand hikers.
For me, I try my best to savor the air, sight, sound, and sensation being on the trail. It's a priviledge to be able to haul my body over some distance in the wilderness to be with the nature. Sure I'd like to reach the summit, to bag a peak, however, if I don't, the peak/summit will always be there. I'll just have to try again.
For love, I am taking the same attitude. Not every relationship ends in marriage or LTR. Some run the course faster than the others. However, my emphasis is to create no enemy and to treat each date/encounter with the best attitude.
Memory is usually made of small stuff. I may never get married or obtain a LTR but I'd like to recall each relationship with good and warm thoughts.
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