如果 可以互換角色
會不會 更能關心對方的存在?
會不會 更能尊重對方的習慣?

如果 可以交換靈魂
會不會 更能了解對方的想法?
會不會 更能體諒對方的心情?

如果 可以調換性別
會不會 更能感謝對方的付出?
會不會 更能體會對方的感受?

如果 可以對換個性
會不會 更能包容對方的缺點?
會不會 等能欣賞對方的優點?

有時候總是會有一種想法
如果我們是對方...
會怎麼做 又 不會怎麼做

可惜我們並不是對方
始終是從自己的觀點去思考
無法真正站在對方的立場

男生總是抱怨：
女生好麻煩..怎麼都不多點體諒、信任

女生總是埋怨：
男生好難猜..怎麼都不多點關心、細心

或者 該好好傾聽彼此的心聲
或者 該好好溝通彼此的需要
或者 該好好認識彼此的差異
或者 該好好解決彼此的問題

別把愛視為理所當然..
別把愛拿來互相傷害..

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Beyonce - If I were a boy

Beyonce:「Intimacy」 (親密)
The man: 「Honesty」 (坦白)
Beyonce: 「Commitment」(承諾)
Both: 「You, me, us...」(你，我，彼此)

If I were a boy 
(如果我是男生)
Even just for a day 
(就算只有一天也好)

I'd roll outta bed in the morning 
(我會在床上滾來滾去到天亮)
And throw on what I wanted then go 
(可以盡情的摔東西，掉頭就走)
Drink beer with the guys
(可以和三五好友喝個爛醉)
And chase after girls
(可以追著漂亮美眉跑)
I'd kick it with who I wanted
(也可以揍扁那些討厭鬼)
And I'd never get confronted for it.
(然後不在乎後果會如何)
Cause they'd stick up for me.
(因為他們總看我不順眼)

If I were a boy
(如果我是男生)
I think I could understand
(我想我會懂得)
How it feels to love a girl
(和女生戀愛的感覺)
I swear I'd be a better man.
(我發誓 會當個好男人)
I'd listen to her
(傾聽她的心聲)
Cause I know how it hurts
(因為我了解被傷害的感受)
When you lose the one you wanted
(當你失去了你所愛)
Cause he's taken you for granted
(因為他視你為理所當然)
And everything you had got destroyed
(所有的一切都栽在他手裡)

If I were a boy
(如果我是男生)
I could turn off my phone
(我大可關掉手機)
Tell everyone it's broken
(假裝手機摔壞了)
So they'd think that I was sleepin' alone
(讓大家以為我一個人睡)
I'd put myself first
(我可以只顧著自己)
And make the rules as I go
(然後暢所欲為)
Cause I know that she'd be faithful
(因為我知道我的女孩，絕對忠心)
Waitin' for me to come home <to come home >
(乖乖等著我回家 <回家 > )

It's a little too late for you to come back
(現在才想回頭，為時已晚)
Say its just a mistake
(你說中間肯定有誤會)
Think I'd forgive you like that
(還以為我會原諒你)
If you thought I would wait for you
(癡等著你回心轉意)
You thought wrong
(那你真的錯了) 

But you're just a boy
(但 你只是男生)
You don't understand
(什麼都不了解)
Yeah you don't understand
(都不懂)
How it feels to love a girl someday
(愛上女生 是什麼感覺)
You wish you were a better man
(你自許 成為好男人)
You don't listen to her
(卻不傾聽她的心聲)
You don't care how it hurts
(也不關心她的傷痛)
Until you lose the one you wanted
(直到 失去你所愛)
Cause you've taken her for granted
(因為你都視她為理所當然)
And everything you have got destroyed
(你摧毀了她的一切)
But you're just a boy
(就因為 你是男生) 

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