There's nothing casual about physical intimacy between two people. NOT casual at all. At least in my book.
Although i don't want the demand of a LTR now, I am not looking for hookups either.
Female sexuality can be complicated. Some of us are very selective. I am. Any little something that makes me wrinkle my nose is a turn-off. One turn-off and there's NO WAY.
God builds me this way (Thank you GOD!) therefore i can't do hookups or ONS.
It has to be a relationship, albeit not an all consuming one.
I do love the friendship part though.
If i like a guy enough to get involved, i care about him, his moods and ups and downs.
To be a friend is to listen
To be a woman is to sooth a man in private
It delights me to see a man happy in my company
The time he spends with me is healing and positive
I can send him back into his world with a smile on his face