我一直被灌輸一些觀念,彷彿男女之間就是得一直的搞心機 and see who s got upper hand in the relationship.
For example, 我常聽到一些男生追女生時用盡心,text her on her cell everyday for 3 months. Then the day before Valentines day, the girl finally slept with that guy. However, on the valentines day, he only text her saying "Happy Valentines" without asking her whether she wants to meet up. Then the guy never text her again for couple days. When the girl text him, he just said "U never text me back, and I was just busy at work".
The girl confront her situation to her girl friends and the ones who are "successful in playing this field" advice her not to text him back until couple days later. They said, when you text him back right away, he ll just think u re like a dog 隨之換呼。
The girl didn t listen and still text him the night he texted her. Then he never replied her text until 2 days later.
Its sad to know that we re constantly at war with the opposite sex. Everyone is self-fish and is constantly looking for a floater, or what is known as "rebounce". People want to feel loved and be loved but they often forget how to love someone back in a proper way.
Nowadays, people just find excuses saying they are busy at work to sound more "successful". I d think 70% is true, but the rest of 30% is just he s not that into you.