天底下真的只有三件事

一件是「自己的事」
諸如：上不上班、吃什麼東西、開不開心、結不結婚、
要不要幫助人...自己能安排的皆屬之。

一件是「別人的事」
諸如：小張好吃懶做、小陳婚姻不幸福、老陳對我很不滿意、
我幫助別人，別人卻不感激..... 別人在主導的事情皆屬之。

一件是「老天爺的事」
諸如：會不會颳風、地震、戰爭、開悟、成道......人能力
範圍以外的事情，都屬於老天爺的管轄範圍。


人的煩惱就是來自於：

忘了自己的事，愛管別人的事，擔心老天爺的事 ....


所以要輕鬆自在很簡單：
打理好「自己的事」，不去管「別人的事」，不操心「老天爺的事」

這只是靜心在「哲學」上的詮釋，知道並不代表你能辦到。
除非你能進入「靜心狀態」去「觀照」，你就會「如實」發現...

天底下真的只有這三件事：「自己的事」、「別人的事」、「老天爺的事」

下次心情不好時，趕快問自己，那件事到底是「誰」的事！

  
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Mcfly - Nothing
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 Everything she says to me means nothing
 Even words of sympathy mean nothing
 I'm feeling down and I hate the sound of nothing
 What's the point in hanging round for nothing
 And I can't remember falling in love with you
 This is agony
 And you know you're putting me through
 This misery taking every memory
 Just tell me why this misery won't go away
 How can we carry on this way
 I find it hard to hold a conversation
 And being with her's just an aggravation
 I could stay but I haven't got the patience
 I'm sick of her pathetic explanations
 That's why I've forgotten falling in love with you
 This is agony
 And you know you're putting me through
 This misery taking every memory
 Just tell me why this misery won't go away
 How can we carry on this way
 You'll never bring me down
 'Cause I'm so far above you
 You think you're strong
 But you're nothing to me now
 And I hope you will be happy
 This time around
 And I can't remember falling in love with you
 This is agony
 Do you know you're putting me through
 This misery taking every memory
 Just tell me why this misery won't go away
 How can we carry on this way