I cannnot help but write something here today. Some people might think women at 30th are rushed to find someone she thinks right and settle down. For fertility reason, that might be true. However, for me, kids/marriage can surely be elements of enrichment of life, and yet they may not be the only option. Recently i met a guy, late forty, divorced with a kid. Somehow i felt the way he faces the reality and his affections is way too indirect and unbold. His reply to my comments is, “ time truly is you women’s enemy, but you gotta wait patiently (for me).”
Well, that's kinda funny. If he is not mature enough, not witty enough, what's the reason to wait?
Furthermore, if he is not rich enough, not looking decent enough, not healthy enough. Why bother to wait patiently?