Dear ......
No matter what had happened before about your history, there are always meaningful to yourself. We had chatted for a long while for this topic about how to differentiate who is only want to take something and who don't.
It is obliviously that we cannot to make sure someone that we met in the cybernetic net world. And we don't know what the motive of his willing is. Maybe he is a good person but maybe not. The most important is that we must keep our intelligent mind to protect ourselves own anytime. We must keep a clear brain also, even in our routine realistic world.
There are too many cases of persons fell down to the trap by the net friends, and there are also happened so much unhappiness because of the net friends either. The net is an instrument or skill for ourselves to communicate with someone else we have already known or not. If there are strangers for only to chat with something else, we must keep the clear mind to protect ourselves, especially when he ask you to make friend with him in the way for boy and girl, especially to tell you about him to fall in love with you this way. I can say that he is a liar.
How can we be touched by strangers only through his words in the net, and how can we believe his words are true or false by the net? Anyway, I had talked to you through so many cases, academic research, psychological or sociological aspects, and criminal cases of the newspaper.
Please don't make too much imagination about the net for making good friends into the realistic world. I always feel sad and down, because I had tired my best to tell you about the reasons for a long wile already. And please don't disappoint to me about the views anymore.
What I really most pay attention to the important focus, which is about your points of view, including 3 aspects: the empirical beliefs, evaluative orientations, and emotional affects.
1. There are so many experiences had happened to our life, there also comes the observational judgments by our wisdom and mind. Not to be fooled by someone else who only want to gain something without their sincerest mind to pay their attention to take care the other, especially it’s about the most important life style and direction. What this kind of person only want to take rather than to pay.
2. What I mentioned about the meaning of love, you can look at whose behavior with his sincerest heart or not, through his kindness polite attitude sympathetically understandings to stand your points or not, especially he want to pay for you and take care of your needs or not.
3. No matter what the happy or sad things happened to us, to feel what you feel, to encourage your will, to analyze the future developments for you, and comfort your mind when you are down. And stand at the high level aspects to appreciate the beauty or sadness about our life.
By the way, that I can understand your thoughts and moods about your history or events. No matter what had happened to us recently, I can still keep my original mind and direction to go forward to beside with you.
Yours truly, Mann
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ps:There is an university female student had been chatted and fooled by a net friend. And she is disappeared for a long while that we and policemen cannot find her yet. Even most of us including department professors and classmates had wanrned her several times. Now, her relatives, parents, teachers, and friends are so worry about her. |
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