I`ve learned -
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
我終於了解－
不論我如何付出關懷，
有些人就是無動於衷。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how much I care,
some people just don`t care back.
我終於了解－
建立起信任，需費時多年，
但只需幾秒就能摧毀它。
I`ve learned -
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.
我終於了解－
重要的不是你一生中擁有了什麼東西，
而是你一生中擁有了什麼人。
I`ve learned -
that it`s not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.
我終於了解－
你可以藉由魅力達到目的，
但只能維持15分鐘。
此後，你最好要有些真材實料。
I`ve learned -
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you`d better know something.
我終於了解－
你不應該拿自己和別人的最佳表現相比，
而應該和自己的最佳表現相比。
I`ve learned -
that you shouldn`t compare
yourself to the best others can do
but to the best you can do.
我終於了解－
重要的不是發生在人們身上的事，
而是他們對那事的反應。
I`ve learned -
that it`s not what happens to people
that`s important. It`s what they do about it.
我終於了解－
你在瞬間所做的事，
可以叫你心痛一輩子。
I`ve learned -
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.
我終於了解－
不論你切得多薄，
事情總是具有兩面。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.
我終於了解－
需要經歷很長的時日，
才能使我成為我所欲成為的人。
I`ve learned -
that it`s taking me a long time
to become the person I wan
我終於了解－
做出反應遠比思考來得容易。
I`ve learned -
that it`s a lot easier
to react than it is to think.
我終於了解－
每次離開所愛的人時，
你總要說親愛的話，
因那也許是你最後一次見他們的面。
I`ve learned -
that you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
我終於了解－
你可以繼續走下去
遠超過你所以為的極限。
I`ve learned -
that you can keep going
long after you think you can`t.
我終於了解－
我們須為自己所做的事負責，
不論自己感覺如何。
I`ve learned -
that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.
我終於了解－
你若不控制你的態度，
就是讓你的態度控制了你。
I`ve learned -
that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.
我終於了解－
不論起初的關係如何熱絡，
熱情總會退卻，
最好有其他的東西可以取代它。
I`ve learned -
that regardless of how hot and steamy
a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had better be
something else to take its place.
我終於了解－
英雄就是那些
在須要做的時刻，
做應該做的事，
而不計後果如何的人。
I`ve learned -
that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.
我終於了解－
學習寬恕，需要操練。
I`ve learned -
that learning to forgive takes practice.
我終於了解－
的確有些人非常愛你，
只是他們不知如何表達。
I`ve learned -
that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don`t know how to show it.
我終於了解－
金錢是一種很差勁的計分方式。
I`ve learned -
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
我終於了解－
我與最好的朋友
可以做任何事，
或不做任何事，
而一樣享受了最棒的時光。
I`ve learned -
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.
我終於了解－
有時你以為會在你失意時踹你一腳的人，
其實卻正是那個將幫助你重新站起來的人。
I`ve learned -
that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you`re down
will be the ones to help you get back up.
我終於了解－
有時候我憤怒，
因我有權利憤怒。
但這並不表示
我有權利殘忍。
I`ve learned -
that sometimes when I`m angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn`t give me
the right to be cruel.
我終於了解－
真實的友誼會持續增長，
即或遠隔千里。
真實的愛亦然。
I`ve learned -
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
我終於了解－
有些人不照著你所期望的方式來愛你，
並不表示他們沒有盡他們的一切來愛你。
I`ve learned -
that just because someone doesn`t love you
the way you want them to doesn`t mean
they don`t love you with all they have.
I`ve learned -
that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you`ve had
and what you`ve learned from them
and less to do with how many
birthdays you`ve celebrated.
I`ve learned -
that you should never tell a child
their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating, and
what a tragedy it would be
if they believed it.
I`ve learned -
that your family won`t always
be there for you. It may seem funny,
but people you aren`t related to
can take care of you and love you
and teach you to trust people again.
Families aren`t biological.
我終於了解－
不論一個朋友多好，
總有一些時候他還是會傷到你，
而你總得為此原諒他。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how good a friend is,
they`re going to hurt you
every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.
我終於了解－
被人原諒不一定足夠，
有時你也得學習原諒自己。
I`ve learned -
that it isn`t always enough
to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn
to forgive yourself.
我終於了解－
不論你的心破碎到什麼程度，
世界也不會因你的悲傷而停止運轉。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how bad
your heart is broken
the world doesn`t stop for your grief.
我終於了解－
儘管我們的背景和環境會影響我們的本質，
但我們都須為我們爾後的改變負責。
I`ve learned -
that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.
我終於了解－
有時當我的朋友間起了衝突，
儘管我不情願，
我還是被迫需選擇站在其中一方。
I`ve learned -
that sometimes when my friends fight,
I`m forced to choose sides
even when I don`t want to.
我終於了解－
兩個人爭吵，並不表示他們不愛對方。
兩個人不爭吵，也不表示他們愛對方。
I`ve learned -
that just because two people argue,
it doesn`t mean they don`t love each other
And just because they don`t argue,
it doesn`t mean they do.
我終於了解－
有時你必須把焦點放在個人，
而非他們的行為上。
I`ve learned -
that sometimes you have to put
the individual ahead of their actions.
我終於了解－
我們並不需要改換朋友－
如果我們明白朋友也會改變的話。
I`ve learned -
that we don`t have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.
我終於了解－
你不應那麼熱切地去發掘一個秘密，
因它可能會永遠改變你的一生。
I`ve learned -
that you shouldn`t be so
eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.
我終於了解－
兩個人可以看著同一件事，
卻見到完全不同的東西。
I`ve learned -
that two people can look
at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
我終於了解－
無論你如何嘗試保護你的孩子，
他們終究還是會受傷，
而你也會在此過程中受傷。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how you try to protect
your children, they will eventually get hurt
and you will hurt in the process.
我終於了解－
墜入情網和持續相愛，
都有許多途徑。
I`ve learned -
that there are many ways of falling
and staying in love.
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