A football player walked away from 3.6 million salary to join the war in the wake of 9/11 and he died in the war. He was truly an American hero. I'm going to Philly for my brother-in law's wedding on Thurday. My brother-in law is a young ophthalmologist, and he is gonna marry a young divorced woman. There is no discrimiation against divorcees in the U.S. I know some divorced Korean women had hard time living in Korean so they came to the U.S.