有一種愛叫做白頭偕老 - 轉文
年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨著年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。
慢慢地去瞭解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences . But as time goes on, you
will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough .
You need time to know, to forgive and to love . All this needs a very big mind .
有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?
我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。
有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。
我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。
最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love ? We always think that love
is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing inthe world . But one day, when
you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light . We all thought
love was very deep, but infact it's very thin . The deepest and heaviest love must
grow up with the time .
在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裡。
然後去愛。
不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。
只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。
可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. Andthen begin to love
. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be .
Just wait for one love . Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the
love itself .
我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋,什麼都可以接受。
相反,我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程,知道自己最重要的是什麼,知道不重要的東西是什麼。
而後,做一個純簡的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become morebroad - minded and can
accept everything . Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the
most important and what's the least . And then be a simple man .
我知道這世上有人在等我,儘管我不知道我在等誰。
但是因為這樣,我每天都非常快樂。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is .
But I feel happy every day for this .
在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness .
好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you
abandon the whole world for one person .
我愛你不是因為你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you .
幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。
幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。
當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights inone's hand .
It's about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are
hungry or having someone's love when you need love .
一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學
會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime . When you finally get your
own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which
makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love .
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