Went to a BBQ party, met a lot of Berkeley students and alumnus. Given we are in the same age group, 25-35, these people are/were in grad/med or PHD, they've already landed few steps in zone of success, versus I am still stuck in senior yr of college. 8-} On the other hand, I feel good fitting in with these smart asses; however the Asian upfront social status brand tagging among their small heads were annoying, seriously! I know these are great motivations, and it is my motivation, but until I am there, I will continue hating it. :-"