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作者: 靜靜潛水的小咖 日期: 2011.09.02  天氣:  心情:



這篇文章要引用的內容,可能早就po過了;

但,時不時地,還是會想到,還是會拿來鼓勵自己一下



這段勵志的話,出自【我叫金三順】....轉眼間,我居然已經過了她這位勇於生活的"大嬸"的年紀了


其實,我不喜歡韓劇。大概只有金三順跟市政廳,真正看過吧。因為它們的女主角,都有著勇於挑戰、心地善良的特色,也算是男主角發現璞玉女主角的老梗。

而下面這段話,可能有其他出處,在劇中,它們躍上了公車亭的海報,讓正在低潮不安中的女主角,看到了...



사랑하라, 한번도 상처받지 않은 것치림
去愛吧,就像不曾受過傷一樣。


춤추라, 아무도 바라보고 있지 않은 것처럼.
跳舞吧,就像沒有人欣賞一樣地去舞。


노래하라, 아무도 듣고 있지 않은 것처럼.
唱歌吧,就像沒有任何人聆聽一樣地唱。


일하라, 돈이 필요하지 않은 것처럼.
工作吧,如同不需要金錢一樣地工作。


살라, 오늘이 마지막 날인 것처럼.
生活吧,如同今天是末日一樣地去生活。






=========== 原出處的其中一個版本 by Alfred D'Souza ===========

Happiness is a Journey.


For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin , real life.

But, there was always some obstacles in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinnished business, time still to be served or a debt to be paid.

Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that there is no way to happiness.

Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you share it with someone special, someone special enough to spend your time with.

Make the most of your time. Don't waste too much of your time studying, working, or stressing about something that seems important. Do what you want to do to be happy but also do what you can to make the people you care about happy.

Remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you take your last test, until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you have the perfect body, the perfect car, or whatever other perfect thing you desire.

Stop waiting until the weekend, when you can party or let loose, until summer, spring, fall or winter, until you find the right person and get married, until you die, until your born again, to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

So work like you don’t need the money,

Love like you have never been hurt,

And dance like no one’s watching.




這篇文章大意就是勸說,享受生活,快樂不需遠求。

快樂,並不是我們汲汲營營之後才能達到的目標

享受工作、勇敢去愛、盡情舞蹈,在這過程中,你就能找到快樂了。





這就是近年來大家愛說的『活在當下』

這就是日本茶道大師千利休的『一期一會』

這就是羅馬詩人Horace幾千年前就在說的Carpe diem!








不過,三句話、三種文化,概念還是有微妙的差異


活在當下,與一期一會,都跟禪宗的觀點有關,所以比較像是與其憂心未來,不如專注現在;

活在當下這句話提倡時,多少也是鼓勵好好活著

一期一會則更有點藝術味道 --- 「要對眼前發生的每件事投注最大的注意力」

Carpe diem 這句拉丁語,其實全文是 "carpe diem, quam minimum credula postero."
Seize the day, trusting as little as possible in the future.把握今朝,莫信未來。
強調的,其實是未來如此不可預見,因此轉而鼓勵要把握現在。








現在的我,之所以沒有進步,

就是因為沒有展開 the Happy journey of life吧....沒有去把握,不敢去把握,

我以為的看開,原來...只是逃避,只是把鏡子遮住或轉開。

我以為的心如止水,原來...只是故意不去水邊,但水面早已漣漪波動。



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