It is an interesting thing, someone complained his pet was taught dirty words by someone who is his neighbor lives in i-Part.Ha, ha!Desperate! Hopeless! If someone learned this attitude, no one would change him ,even the God wouldn t. How do you get along with a man who is desperate? Finally, you are infected by his negative values. That is not a great benefit for you. What you can do is to leave him as far as possible. Every connection seems to bring you unhappy experience.Why? It is because you have not readied to accept every possibility. Every time you always think the positive side. you do not consider the other bad side.Every thing has the pro and con. This time , you eventually learned about the both sides effects. But, next time , are you still optimistic to accept the new case?