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20 signs that you should end a relationship
Has your relationship run its course? Here`s how to tell
Relationships, like hot summers, often look better from a distance. Just as you forget how draining a muggy day can feel, you also forget how soul-destroying and lonely a relationship can feel when it`s not going well.
“So just end it,” right? It`s never as simple as that. Most of us have experienced that dilemma of not knowing whether to walk away from a relationship. You think that you`re being too picky, you worry that no-one else will love you this much, you don`t want to hurt someone you care about, you fear regretting it and not being able to win them back. You`ve stayed in relationships for those reasons, right? Yep, so have we.
But these alone aren`t good enough reasons to stay in a relationship that isn`t working. Ending a relationship can be heartbreaking, even if you`re dying to get away. The blissful future that you`d imagined when you first got together is now not going to happen. Thing is, is you`re unhappy, that blissful future wasn`t going to happen anyway.
If you’re experiencing a few of these 20 signs regularly, it may be time to move on. It will be difficult, but ultimately it`ll be the right thing for you both. Life is too short (and your partner`s life is too short) to waste valuable years on a pairing that`s going nowhere.
1. You’re always craving time alone
It’d be weird and needy to want your partner by your side every minute of every day. It’s normal to look forward to some time alone. But if you’re craving me-time and wish that he or she wasn’t around, it`s clear that your relationship is giving you more frustration than joy.
2. You don’t go out together any more
Even if you’re living together, you should never stop going on dates together. A successful relationship is based on more than sex and silently watching the telly together.
3. You prefer seeing your friends to seeing your partner
A good relationship involves socialising with and without your other half. Not wishing that you lived with your housemates again rather than your lover.
4. You’ve stopped having sex
Sex drive can dip for many reasons, including stress or medication. But if you just stop fancying your partner, and sex becomes a chore or stops altogether, listen to your alarm bells.
5. You’ve stopped touching each other
Touching isn’t just about sex, it’s about affection and togetherness. Casual touching, hugging and holding hands are the signs of a healthy relationship with two people who still fancy each other. If you flinch when he or she brushes against you, it really is time to get out.
6. You’ve stopped kissing
Passionate kissing is emotionally more intimate than sex, so it’s often the first thing to go when two people start drifting apart. If you want to kiss each other but just haven’t got round to it for a while, pucker up. If you don`t enjoy it, see above.
7. They no longer make you laugh
Their witty lines once made tea came out of your nose. These days you just wish they’d shut up. Why are you still with them, pray tell?
8. You don’t chat
Chatting – about trivia, what’s in the news or what happened at work – is the bedrock of a good relationship. When you stop talking to each other about the little things, it’s a sign that you don’t see each other as friends any more.
9. You’re always nit-picking
If you’re constantly bothered by their coffee-slurping, their taste in pants and everything they do, you’re not in love, you`re in a constant state of “argh”. That`s not trivial: it`s the kind of everyday stress that can damage your health.
10. They`re always nit-picking
If your partner seems constantly irritated by you, it suggests that they`re not happy or even comfortable around you. They may be wanting out, but haven’t the courage to bring up the subject. If he or she makes you feel that you can’t do anything right, do you really want to be around this person?
11. You do all the chores
Every long-term couple has disagreements about housework and other chores, but the squabbles usually end in vague equality or compromise. If your partner treats you like a doormat, show them the door.
12. You don’t care about your appearance
Love doesn’t mean letting yourself go. If you no longer care about whether he or she fancies you or not, it spells trouble for your sex life – and your relationship.
13. Red letter days are forgotten
Anniversaries, Valentine’s Day and so on may seem trivial, but a loving couple will acknowledge them in some way, even if it’s with a scribbled note saying “V-Day is rubbish, let’s spend it in bed.” Once you forget each other’s birthdays, your relationship is so far past its sell-by date that even a dog wouldn`t eat it.
14. You’re doing all the giving (or all the getting)
Most relationships go through stages where one person is more emotionally and sexually generous than the other, but the imbalance should not be more or less permanent. Parasites don’t make good partners.
15. You’ve stopped liking yourself
A lover is not supposed to make you feel unloved, unattractive and unable to be yourself. If yours does, get out and stop letting them sap your spirit.
16. Your friends think they`re bad for you
Your friends know you best, and they’ll say what they think if it’s for your benefit. If they think your partner is no good, listen. They’ll be there for you when he or she isn’t.
17. You compare them with other men or women
It’s natural to find other people attractive, but not to compare your lover unfavourably with every person who catches your eye.
18. You look up your exes
It’s fine to be friends with exes, and it shows maturity. But if you seek out and flirt with an ex, then you arrange to meet up with them, and find yourself wondering “what if…?”, your current relationship is doomed.
19. You wish they`d change
Once the rose-tinted early months have passed, mismatched personalities become more obvious. You can’t change your partner into someone better suited to you. Instead, find someone who’s already your perfect match.
20. You say “I love you” but don’t mean it
Do you feel a little knot of guilt whenever you say it, as though you’re lying? Do you only say it to make them shut up and go away? Then stop saying it, and start spending more time with someone you really love – starting with yourself.
1。你總是渴望獨處的時間
這將會是奇怪，有需要的人士希望你的伴侶在你身邊的每一分鐘，每一天。這是正常的期待一點時間獨處。但如果你是我渴求時，希望他或她不在身邊，它`明顯地看出，你們的關係是給你更多的挫折比喜悅。
2。你不必再一起出去
即使你住在一起，你永遠不應該停止前往約會。一個成功的關係是基於性別和多默默地看著電視中的一起。
3。你喜歡看到你的朋友看到你的伴侶
良好的關係，不涉及社交與你的另一半。你不希望你的室友住在一起，再而不是你的愛人。
4。你已經停止做愛
性慾可以浸的原因很多，包括壓力或藥物。但是如果你只停留歡喜你的合作夥伴，性生活便成了苦差事或完全停止，聽你的警鐘。
5。你已經停止相互接觸
在談到不只是性，它是關於感情和團結。隨便觸摸，擁抱和牽手是一個健康的跡象，兩個人誰的關係仍然喜歡對方。如果你退縮時，他或她刷對你，真的是時候離開。
6。你已經停止接吻
激情接吻是情感更親密比性，因此它往往首先去當兩個人開始疏遠。如果你想吻對方，只是沒有得到一輪了一會兒，折疊起來。如果你不喜歡`噸，見上文。
7。他們不再讓你笑
他們的機智線曾經茶出來你的鼻子。這些日子裡，你只是希望他們閉嘴。為什麼你還與他們，請告訴？
8。你不聊天
聊天- 關於瑣事，什麼在新聞或在工作中發生了什麼- 是一個良好關係的基石。當你停止互相交談有關的小事情，這是一個跡象，表明你沒有看到對方為朋友了。
9。你總是吹毛求疵
如果你經常困擾他們的咖啡slurping是，他們的口味在褲子和他們做的一切，你不是在愛，你`重新固定在一個國家的“哎呀“。這不是小事` ：它約好了種日常強調，可能會損害您的健康。
10。他們`重新總是吹毛求疵
如果你的伴侶似乎不斷激怒了你，這表明他們`重新不滿意，甚至你周圍的舒適。他們可能是想出來，但沒有膽量提出這個問題。如果他或她讓你覺得你不能做任何事情，你真的想在附近的這個人？
11。你做所有的家務活
每一個長期的夫婦分歧和其他有關家務瑣事，但最後往往在爭吵模糊平等或妥協。如果你的伴侶一樣對待你的受氣包，他們展示了門。
12。你不關心你的外表
愛並不意味著讓你自己去。如果你不再關心他或她是否中意你沒有，這樣做有點麻煩你的性生活-與您的關係。
13。信天紅被遺忘
紀念日，情人節等，看似小事，但一個充滿愛的夫婦，承認他們在某些方面，即使是一個潦草的紙條，上面寫著“勝利日是垃圾，讓我們用它在床上。 “一旦你忘記對方的生日，你們的關係是迄今為止過去的保質期限，即使是狗也不願意吃。
14。你是做給所有的（或所有獲得）
大多數地方的關係經過階段一人更慷慨的情緒和性比其他，但不應該不平衡或多或少永久化。寄生蟲不會成為好夥伴。
15。你喜歡自己停止
一個情人是不應該讓你覺得不被愛，沒有吸引力，無法自己。如果你沒有，走出去，不要讓他們侵蝕你的精神。
16。你的朋友認為，他們對你不好`重
你的朋友知道你最好的，他們會說什麼，他們認為，如果是為了你的利益。如果他們認為你的伴侶是不好，聽。他們會在那裡為你當他或她是不是。
17。比較一下他們與其他男人或婦女
是很自然的找到其他人有吸引力，但不是你的愛人來比較差的每個人誰抓到你的眼睛。
18。你看看你的組價
它的罰款，是朋友與價方法，它是成熟的表現。但如果你尋求和挑逗當然，你安排與他們見面，並找到自己想知道的“如果...？ “ ，你目前的關係是注定要失敗。
19。你希望他們` D轉換
一旦玫瑰有色最初幾個月過去了，不匹配的性格變得更加明顯。你不能改變你的伴侶的人更適合成為你。相反，找人誰是你已經配合得天衣無縫。
20。你說“我愛你“，但並不意味著它
你覺得有點內疚結每當你說，好像你說謊嗎？你只說讓他們閉嘴，走開？然後停止這麼說了，並開始花更多的時間與你真正愛的人- |
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