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篇名: 不用苦苦追求快樂, 就是一種幸
作者: 淡望紅塵 日期: 2005.01.03  天氣:  心情:


值得想一想                                                                                                                           
                 有沒有想過:  當你汲汲營營的為了工作而加班,               
                 或者為了考上研究所而挑燈夜戰背後真正的目的是???           
                 人爬得越高,車子也越大。長久以來,大家都是如此地在社會中  
                 「進化」。                                                
                 升大學時,我告別了單車族,靠家教收入成為機車族,          
                 當超越同學的單車,呼嘯而過時,心中隱隱有股優越感。       
                 出社會後,賣命工作一段時間,我很快地進化為「汽車族」。    
                                                                           
                 每遇紅燈,車停路口時,看著旁邊日曬雨淋的機車騎士,我是三分
                 悲憫,七分驕傲。                                                
                  不久前,旅行到峇里島,這種「進化論」終於被「當頭棒喝」。  
                  有天,很不幸地,眼鏡摔破了;沮喪地中斷行程,叫計程車回旅  
                 館。                                                      
                   在車上打聽一下,何處可修眼鏡?                            
                   司機說,附近都沒有眼鏡行,只有到首府「淡巴沙」才能修。    
                  我不禁嘆道:「你們這裡真不方便。」                        
                   司機則笑著說:「這裡的人很少近視,倒不會感到不方便。」    
                  聽這司機談吐不俗,我決定包他一天車,到「淡巴沙」修眼     
                 鏡,兼市區觀光。                                          
                  他猶豫了幾分鐘,才說:「那我明早八點到旅館接你。」        
                 隔天,在「淡巴沙」逛了一上午,發覺此處無啥可觀;          
                  我想打道回府,下午就在旅館游泳、休息。                    
                   但是想到司機為接生意,必然推掉許多原有計畫,就難以啟齒。  
                    掙扎甚久,我結結巴巴地說:                               
                 「對不起,司機先生,我想改成只包半天,不知會不會對你造成困  
                 擾?」                                                    
                  沒想到司機竟喜出望外地說:「一點都不會。昨天,你要包一整天
                 車,我很猶豫,如果不是因為跟你談得來,我是不接受包整天車的。」
                   我困惑地問:「為什麼?」他答:「我設定一個工作目標,每天只要做到六百元台幣
                ,我就收工, 你用一千二台幣包一整天,那我就沒有自己的時間了。」        
                  「你可以儲錢,隔天休息呀?」                              
                   他笑著說:「先是做一整天再休息,然後就變成做一個月、     
                 做一整年再休息;最後是做一輩子,終生不得休息。工作也會習慣
                 的。」                                                                    我問:「那你們閒著幹嘛呢?時間那麼多,不會無聊嗎?」     
              他看著我,像遇到外星人一樣,說:「這裡那麼好玩,怎會無聊?   
               峇里島每家都養鬥雞,收工後,我們就鬥鬥雞、放放風箏,     
             到沙灘打打排球,游游泳呀!」                              
                                                                           
                 這時,我想到一則笑話:一個美國人到大溪地度假,當大溪地人賣
                 力地幫他                                                  
                                                                           
                 按摩時,老美滿心優越感,滿臉悲憫地說:「如果你們上進點、積
                 極點、勤快點,                                            
                                                                           
                 你們也可以像我們一樣到大溪地度假呀!」                    
                                                                           
                 大溪地人一臉疑惑地說:「你辛苦一年,只為了到大溪地過兩星期
                 日子,                                                    
                                                                           
                 我卻是一整年在大溪地享受生活的,我為什麼要學你?」        
                                                                           
                 從峇里島回台灣後,司機的話就像禪宗語錄,不斷在腦海盤旋。  
                                                                           
                 ?突然覺得前半輩子完全「誤入歧途」。                       
                                                                           
                 ?再繼續「進化」下去,可以想見房子應越換越大,大到無力打   
                 掃,再請菲傭                                              
                 ?;                                                       
                 為了養房貸與菲傭,只好拚命工作,有家歸不得。那麼大房子又有
                 何意義?                                                  
                                                                           
                 開車時,我也想:以車代步,四體不勤,搞得日漸臃腫,        
                                                                           
                 只好買個腳踏車或踏步機放在臥室踩。                        
                                                                           
                 但時忙,時懶,難以有恆;那何不乾脆騎單車上班,爬樓梯踏步  
                 呢?                                                      
                                                                           
                 在峇里島治好了文明的近視之後,人生境界豁然開朗,          
                                                                           
                 步調一放慢,視野更寬,也更清楚。                          
                                                                           
                 人生過程中您是否也是汲汲營營隨波逐流呢?                  
                                                                           
                 何妨停下腳步抬起頭來看一下方向對否,這是否是您所要的人生。 
                                                                           
                                                                           
                 ?忙的時後,  想要休息;                                     
                                                                           
                 渡假的時後,  想到未來;                                    
                                                                           
                 窮的時後,  渴望富有;                                      
                                                                           
                 生活安逸了,  擔心結果不如預期;                            
                                                                           
                 看明白了,  後悔當初沒有下定決心;                          
                                                                           
                                                                           
                 不屬於自己的,  常常心存慾望;                              
                                                                           
                 握在手裡了,  又懷念未擁有前的輕鬆;                        
                                                                           
                 生命若不是現在, 那是何時  !!                              
                                                                           
                 愈是簡單的快樂,  愈可以經久不變,                          
                                                                           
                 不用苦苦追求快樂, 就是一種幸福ㄛ  !!           
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