An article from Cosmopolitan said that
每一段戀情就像是愛情學位的一門學分,讓你學到important elements的課程。如果你漏了任何一堂課,就不能畢業。
Maybe not every relationship is like what you expected. But eventually, it will remind you 愛上某人究竟是什麼,這是唯一認識自己的方法。
From all these bruises and scars, that s the only way you will find out exactly what is it that you want, and who is compatible. You ll learn from your mistakes and become more cautious not to make the same mistakes next time.