What would you do if your spouse was mentally ill? Two years ago, I went to Cincinnati to help a friend when she just had a baby. She asked me to go to church with her mother, and I met some people there. The first day there, a guy snorted so loud right after he sat down on the bench in front of me. Later on, I realized he was on a heavy anti-depressant drug. He has serious depression that he cannot function normally. But his wife stood by his side. A charming Taiwanese guy divorced his beautiful wife because she has Bipolar disorder. She is a compulsive shopper that she cannot control herself not to shop. She put him in debt so he chose to leave her even though they have two sons together.