When I found out the commencement will be held on a Friday, I told myself there should be no expectation, not only the location is far but everyone has work. After a month announcing my graduation to those so called "closet friends," and being selective to whom I only invited. In response, instead of positive and enthusiastic, for most was nonstop complaints how work is tied up, how far it's to fly, how hubby and un-relevant personnel are still debating. I've always been told, "to get into Berkeley is not the real thing, but it is to accomplish the years in Berkeley." Now that I am ready to celebrate, not as celebration of accomplishing academia but as a celebration of surviving the hardest and loneliest two years in life, for those if something comes up in result change of plan not to come are acceptable, but for miscellaneous reasons at the initial decisioning are not.