I found that guys like my look. But they have not fallen for me. They usually come to me with a broken heart. Someone has hurt them deeply, deeper than they are aware of. They are so hurt that their have shut their hearts off, hard to let others get in. been there. Most guys have a special someone in their hearts, and that special someone is most likely not their wives, but a girl they cannot not be with. We create our own love tradgdies because they are beautiful. Almost New Year. Happy New year! Wake up, and smell the roses. Instead of spending our life missing or resenting someone, why not just cherish what we have, people who love us.