Sale，一種以其本身具備的條件，換取同等價值回報的行為。
Buy，一種在需求發生時，以其擁有之價值條件，換取認為可滿足需求的同等價值條件的行為。
當Buy與Sale達成共識時，發生的行為，叫Trade。
買東西時，需要什麼？預算多少？賣方的貨色如何？售價多少？雙方接受品質，價格談攏，成交！
找工作時，看你具備什麼條件？開出什麼樣的價錢？對方需要什麼樣的人？開出什麼樣的薪資條件？雙方達成共識，成交！你爲公司賣命，公司付你薪水。
把這些動詞放在愛情裡，是不是物化了愛情？愛情怎能是一種交易呢？
但是在愛情裡，難道這些行為都不存在嗎？愛情本身不就是一種「授」與「受」，只不過這些授受條件，是更形而上的「心」罷了！
以自身擁有的，尋找「合適」的對象，依自己所能的，以心力經營感情，而對方給予對等的回報。雙方在互相尊重、彼此信任的情形下，甘心情願的付出。這是一種平衡的交易，雙方同時公平地「授」與「受」。
如果有一方具備的先天條件不足，但另一方能接受，而且可以彼此調適，坦然面對既有的現實，也是一種平衡。
但是愛情裡，為什麼有這麼多怨懟？就是因為失衡。有人覺得對方給的太少、有人覺得對方要的太多。而最糟糕的是，這些所謂的標準，都是依照個人自由心証來決定的。放在肚子裡，沒說出來，沒人知道，卻又一廂情願地認為：「你應該要懂啊！？」直到有一天，因為芝麻綠豆的事，潛在的不滿全都爆出來，才知道彼此的差異竟是如此之大。
在愛情裡，到底該有什麼條件才能讓雙方的關係平衡持久呢？我想，答案應該有千百個，所以沒有標準答案，因為愛裡面有「心」，而心是最難測的，往往讓人有「昨是今非」的感傷。
如果真要找個答案，我想就是「將心比心」吧！從小不都學過「己所不欲，勿施於人」嗎？愛情，也是一種人際關係，但因為這種「獨占」的關係，很多人就把得到的視為理所當然。愛情，要以心換心，你付出什麼？得到什麼？自己會有一把尺，如果這把尺扭曲了，就像把車開在沒有路的荒地裡，終究跌跌撞撞。
Love for sale! This love could be a diamond, and it could be rust.
It all depends on what you want, and trade by what!
Heartbreaker
I've got to say it and it's hard for me
You got me crying like I thought I would never be.
Love is believing but you let me down.
How can I love you when you ain't around
And I get to the morning and you never call.
Love should be everything or not at all
And it don't matter whatever you do.
I made a life out of loving you
Only to find any dream that I follow is dying
I'm cryin' in the rain
I could be searching my world for a love everlasting,
feeling no pain when will we meet again.
Why do you have to be a heartbreaker?
Is it a lesson that I never knew?
Got to get out of the spell that I'm under - my love for you.
Why do you have to be a heartbreaker when I was being what you want me to be?
Suddenly everything I ever wanted has passed me by.
This world may end - not you and I.
My love is stronger than the universe
My soul is crying for you and that can not be reversed.
You made the rules and you could not see
You made a life out of hurting me.
Out of my mind I am held by the power of you love
Tell me
when do we try or should we say good-bye?
Why do you have to be a heartbkeaker when I was being what you want me to be?
Suddenly everything I ever wanted has passed me by.
Why do you have to be a heartbreaker?
Is it a lesson that I never knew?
Suddenly everything I ever wanted - my love for you.
Why do you have to be a heartbreaker?
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