Our current place is a mess. We are in the process of moving. Summer seems to be here now. It is muggy today. Ben is not with me, and my heart is still with him. Having a baby changes everything. Men need a penis to get orgasm. Women need to be in a mood to get orgasm. My girlfriend always complains about her hubby to me. She says, " havig sex with my hubby is like small snake enters a mountain cave." She awlays talks about cheating, but so far she hasn't. Or has she?