分享我決ㄉ滿正確ㄉ觀念~ 我們愛什麼人,要給他高興,照顧他、保護他,才是真正高雅的愛。不是要他注意,或是吵鬧、虐待他的精神,這不是愛,這是恨。 When we love someone, we give him happiness and we take care of him and protect him. This is a true noble love. If we want him to take notice of us or we disturb or torture his mind, then this is not love but hatred.