According to the research, it takes 21 days to get in a habit or get out a habit. For those who try to quit drinking, it’s easier to abstain from drinking than cut down on drinking. How much does a person need to get over someone he loves or she loves? A net pal wrote, “It might take a minute to fall in love with someone, but it might take whole life to forget him/ her. My landlord in college asked me to call his ex-girlfriend’s parents and ask if she was married after they had been separated for 3 years. Her father answered the phone and told me she had been married for a while. Even though he expected the answer form her father, my poor landlord didn’t take it well. If you have found someone you love, you never let him/ her go. It’s easier to hold on to him/her than to spend whole life to get over him/ her.