一群已婚的女人聚在一起
                                                           聊著自己目前的婚姻生活
                                                           老實說我其實不太喜歡這樣的聚會
                                                           大家嘴上說是聊天
                                                           到最後其實比較的意味濃厚

                                                         「你們知道那個誰誰誰去年生日的時候，她老公送她....」
                                                         「真的嗎？」
                                                         「好好喔」
                                                         「真希望我也有那種老公耶」
                                                         「今年我生日的時候我也要叫我老公送我....」
                                                         「好好喔，你開口你老公就會送」

                                                           我不喜歡這樣的話題
                                                           或者應該說是我不喜歡比較與被比較

                                                           從小媽媽就告訴我
                                                           如果你沒有聰明的頭腦，那你一定有好聽的嗓音
                                                           如果你沒有出色的才藝，那你一定有一顆善良的心
                                                           聽起來很老套，很像安慰孩子的話
                                                           那我卻相信著

                                                           我一直相信當你缺少一樣東西
                                                           老天一定會給你另一樣東西來彌補
                                                           所以我不喜歡和別人比較

                                                          每當碰到有關這類的話題
                                                          我採取的方法就是閉口不答
                                                          但總是會在心裡忍不住問起

                                                          為什麼大家要這樣比較？

                                                          比較其實很累
                                                          當你看到別人的另一半是如何付出時
                                                          你也回頭告訴自己的另一半「你也要這樣做」

                                                          當你看到別人的另一半送出什麼東西時
                                                          你又回頭告訴你的另一半「你也要送我」

                                                          也許你的另一半愛你
                                                          所以他也如法泡製的做了一樣的事
                                                          感受到他付出或收到禮物的你
                                                          也許快樂、也許開心
                                                          但仔細想想
                                                          這些東西真的是你要的嗎？
                                                          還是只是一種不服輸的心態？

                                                          你的另一半是真的開心的進行這件事
                                                          還是只是因為你的要求？

                                                          同樣的
                                                          如果你的另一半                                                         
                                                          不願意配合你的要求
                                                          那麼在你的心裡
                                                          是否就會覺得他不在愛你？

                                                          其實
                                                          比較來的幸福，不會更快樂






                                                          也許是我想太多
                                                          也許是我一直相信媽媽跟我說的話
                                                          所以我不比較自己的任何地方
                                                          當然也包含幸福

                                                          我只是守著我的幸福
                                                          只要我開心、快樂
                                                          我就覺得自己是最幸福的人