第一個問題就是EQ很差，缺乏衝突管理的能力。心理學家研究發現，會成功的婚姻有一個共同點，就是有良好的衝突管理能力，這是真正愛人的定義，也就是要妥協，甚至於犧牲。如果一直是I want what I want、I want it now的態度，在感情裡面不合就拉倒，是很嚴重的老單身情結。很多人在職場上堅決、不能妥協，帶回私人生活上就會有很大的問題，所以現在女性都缺乏愛人的能力。
The sources of stress could be:
1. Hit the traffic
2. Sickness (either you or someone close to you)
3. Found a new job or lost a job
4. Have a new born baby or get married
5. Have a new relationship (say GF or BF)
6. Lost a love or lost a marriage
7. Other things in life that will cause you to change your life style or spend time/energy to it
Have a great summer! [:D]
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Colors of the wind (DIsney)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkV-of_eN2w
[Pocahontas]
You think I’m an ignorant savage
And you’ve been so many places
I guess it must be so
But still I cannot see
If the savage one is me
Now can there be so much that you don’t know?
You don’t know …
You think you own whatever land you land on
The Earth is just a dead thing you can claim
But I know every rock and tree and creature
Has a life, has a spirit, has a name
You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You’ll learn things you never knew you never knew
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(Note) just out the picture of first rose of 2011, see Album
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